Stop being so damn up tight.

Firstly, we love our blog, our Instagram and our community we were able to build in the past 3 years – it’s our baby!

But growing online, like life in general, will always come with some baggage. Our online presence has been rapidly growing which means more people are watching and more are being opinionated about it. To this day we have always stayed true to our beliefs, our rather weird humour and our honesty #ImLoyalBabe And we are planning on keeping it this way!

But recently we have been receiving a few DM’s like “This joke wasn’t funny at all” or “You should watch out talking like this on here”. Ok, let us stop you right there.

We are fully aware we are not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and that not everyone is going to find us funny. We know some people will find our worldviews offensive and you won’t understand everything we say – you know what, that’s ok. At the heart of everything, it is important to remember Serendipity Ave was created by two best friends with their own views on life, somewhat offensive humour and we are NOT perfect.

Our platform is a place where we celebrate women for their own unique views so conforming to the opinions of others and their perception of what we “should” and “shouldn’t” be like would be our NIGHTMARE. What’s the point of just becoming a nodding mannequin with no real opinion? Remember if you stand for nothing, you fall for everything.

Just let us breathe when we say the word FUCK, take a chill pill when a joke isn’t “your cup of tea” and above all remember we are humans at the end of the day. If you don’t like someone for who they are, just unfollow. We aren’t planning on changing or fitting into a mould of what a fashion influencer should look like.

This blog post is for you if you feel torn between your own opinion and the opinion of others. If sometimes you feel the pressure to feel or behave a “certain way” on or off social media by your peers.

Just remember, life is too short to care for an opinion that doesn’t bring positivity. Don’t let it consume you! Wear what you want, swear as much as you want and at the end of the day you have the option to click the “Block” button on their profile.

Love always N+P xx

Nami and Pascale Fashion Influencer from new Zealand

don't care about what people think of you

Pascale wearing leopard skirt on

Nami Shadbolt in leopard dress from Shop Serendipity Ave

Nami Shadbolt in leopard dress from Shop Serendipity Ave

Shop Pascale’s leopard skirt and Nami’s leopard dress via Shop Serendipity Ave.

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